Life as a Farm Wife
Welcome to the ramblings of my mind and the passions of my heart. Who am I? I am a child of God, a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a teacher and a constant learner... often the hard way.

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

She's Here!!!!!

Okay, so I have had ideas swirling in my mind of a whole bunch of fabulous things to add to this post, but it's been taking me a long time to get anything down in writing! Apparently having a 2nd child in the house DOES make life a little busier. :) So, here are the stats and some pics of my beautiful girl. We are thrilled to have her a part of our family. Everything else I would like to share, I'll save for another day.


She’s Here!!!!

Kalena Jane-  Pronounced -kah LEH nah- 
(We call her Lena (Leh-na) most of the time)
The name, Jane, is special because it also belongs to my dear friend Sarah Jane (and her daughter, Olivia)

Born at 7:28pm on March 17th. (Yes, she's a St. Patty's Day baby)

Weight – 9lbs 2oz. (Jett was 9lbs 1oz)

Length – 21.5 inches (Same as Jett!)






















Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Contemplations of an Expectant Mommy… (not what you think)


Today is my due date and I’m not convinced that my little princess will make her grand entrance today, so I’m distracting myself with this post.

Often, my blog posts tend to be “lighter” in nature, usually featuring my favourite busy little boy, but this one is a little different. If you were hoping for a light read, you may want to skip this one.

As many women can likely relate too (maybe men, too – what do I know?), I have many, likely hundreds of contemplative thoughts that occupy my mind daily. While isolated, they may seem random, but over time with various life experiences, many form into certain themes and build cohesion. I’m going to share about one such theme that has been banking up time in my brain space over the last while.


This thought train began about a month ago at a prenatal appointment that I had. My doctor was out of town, so I was seeing another Dr in the office. He didn’t know me, so he was briefly going over my file out loud in the room with me. He said, “So, this is your third pregnancy?” and for a moment I was taken a back. I am due to expect our second child any day now, but it’s true, this IS my third pregnancy.  I have thought about the baby we lost a little over a year ago quite often as I’ve journeyed through this pregnancy, but somehow hearing someone say it aloud sounds so strange.

Our miscarriage is not a secret and if you’re interested in reading about it, you can check out this post.

At my last 4 prenatal appointments or so, I’ve been given a page for my records… maybe I’m supposed to take them with me when we go to the hospital??? I should probably inquire about that. Anyway, the page just tracks all of the different tests and checks that women routinely have as they approach their time of delivery. At the top of the page it has my own personal information. My top left corner looks like this:


I don’t know if it’s as glaringly obvious to you as it is to me, but it REALLY bothers me that there is a 1 under that “abortion” column. Why do they use that title??? I had no choice surrounding whether or not my baby from my second pregnancy lived or died. To me, the term “abortion” is reserved for babies that are aborted by their mother’s choice, and I did not choose to have an abortion. I know it’s just a word, but it’s a loaded one.

To carry on with my thought train to the next tangent, I was visiting with my parents a few weeks ago. I shared with them my thoughts (what I’ve just shared with you) and we entered an interesting conversation. “Won’t it be incredible to meet your little baby in heaven one day?” One of my parents said. I don’t actually remember if it was mom or dad who brought it up and truthfully, that’s probably not exactly what they said, but thus began our conversation. One of them raised the topic of what people will be like in heaven. It’s crazy to think of meeting my tiny baby who was only 9 weeks along in pregnancy in heaven. I don’t even know if I was expecting a boy or a girl! We talked about how “old” people will be in heaven, which is a funny topic if you’ve ever thought about it.

The bible talks about heaven being perfect and to be perfect, no one will require care.

Revelation 21:3-4 (NLT)
             I heard a loud shout from the throne, saying, “Look, God’s home is now among his people! He will live with them, and they will be his people. God himself will be with them. He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever.”

We know that we will be given new bodies, but how old do you think those bodies will be???

2 Corinthians 5:1-3 (NLT)
“For we know that when this earthly tent we live in is taken down (that is, when we die and leave this earthly body), we will have a house in heaven, an eternal body made for us by God himself and not by human hands.  We grow weary in our present bodies, and we long to put on our heavenly bodies like new clothing. For we will put on heavenly bodies; we will not be spirits without bodies. While we live in these earthly bodies, we groan and sigh, but it’s not that we want to die and get rid of these bodies that clothe us. Rather, we want to put on our new bodies so that these dying bodies will be swallowed up by life.  God himself has prepared us for this, and as a guarantee he has given us his Holy Spirit.”

It’s reasonable to assume that those who pass away from earth in old withering bodies will be given younger, healthier and more agile bodies to forever use in heaven. Those who die with earthly bodies that have been plagued with disease or disability will be given completely healthy and whole bodies to enjoy forever. I’m guessing my 9 week embryotic (is that a word?) baby will not be given a baby body, for that would make him/her dependant and therefore, imperfect, so it is likely that he/she has been given more of an adult body. Weird!

We debated what age would be the perfect age to forever remain at in heaven. I think it was my dad who said, 30, but I disagreed. I am 30 right now and I don’t have nearly the energy/stamina that I used to have. So, I’m guessing that, in heaven, we get to be somewhere in our early 20’s.

***There are others out there in internet world who have pondered this issue of "how old will I be in heaven." Here's a link to another person's thoughts, if you're interested.

There is, of course, a lot of speculation and guessing within these thoughts I’ve been sharing. I have no proof that everyone is the same age in heaven, nor will I preach that message to the world. It’s just something to think about.

So, there you have it; the crazy and somewhat random contemplations of an expectant mother ON her due date. I hope you’ve been able to follow my train of thought. It doesn’t seem SO random in my mind.

I do hope my little girl decides to come today….

I’m guessing she will look something like this:

This is Jett at about 2 weeks old. Love this boy. Cannot wait to meet my little girl.

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Old House, New Feel...

Living in a 100 year old house is a is an interesting experience and it demands constant upkeep fairly frequent renos to remain functional and enjoyable. I actually really like our house. It has character :)

I wish that I had more of an "eye" for interior decorating, but I don't believe that is one of my gifts. I can appreciate a beautiful room when I see it, but often don't feel motivated to transform my own living space because I don't have the energy, nor do I know where to start!

Here are the changes we have made over the years... When Mitch and I got married, we painted most of our main living area on the first floor, had new carpet put in, and put laminate flooring in the kitchen and our bedroom. A few years ago, we put a half bathroom on the second floor of our house and renovated the main bathroom. Before Jett was born, we renovated what has now become our baby room by laying more laminate flooring and painting the walls.

Adding another individual to our family and our home has once again raised the need to make some changes to our house.

Here's our old layout.

I'm not a great artist, but hopefully this gives an idea of what we're doing to our home! The first major issue  of this old layout that jumps out at me is that the corner room, formerly known as our "walk-in closet" has no access to the landing. This hasn't been an issue while Jett has been an only child, but as we inhabit more rooms, this becomes a problem. Our first thought was that this "closet" would become Jett's room, but I didn't like the idea of Jett having to go through either our room, or his little sister's room to get anywhere. Night time potty-training would be a nightmare with this situation! Also, there is no door between the baby room and the corner room. It's actually a larger passage than most doorways. The thought of Jett being able to access his baby sister's room without Mitch and I even hearing or knowing, did not sit well with me. I could totally see Jett trying to bond with his sister by throwing all of his stuffed animals and other possibly more solid/hard toys into the crib.

So... here was the solution we came up with:

The long and the short of it is that we extended the landing to cut into what was formerly Mitch and my bedroom, forfeiting some space, but giving each of the rooms their own access to the landing. We also decided that we (Mitch and I) should occupy the room between our two children and Jett will have his very own L-shaped "big boy" room.

We cleared out the two rooms on Monday, February 20th and had our new walls framed up by the end of the day. In less than two weeks, I'm very pleased with the progress we've made. Luckily, we were able to move into my in-law's basement, which is just on the other side of the hedge from us. This is the most convenient way to renovate, for sure. You can tear apart your house and not have to live in that chaotic space. We are incredibly grateful for the hospitality of "Papa and Mamey" Schultz. I don't think they minded a little extra time with their grandson, either. :)

Unfortunately, it didn't occur to me to take "before" pictures of our old set-up, but I did take some midway pictures.

Here is our new hallway; the extension of the existing landing.


This is the view from the new hallway, looking back into the original landing.


Again from the new hallway, this is a look into the corner room; Mitch and my new room.


Still our new room. These closet organizers were what we had lining the walls of our large "walk-in" closet. They have found new homes; some in Jett's new room and one section in the baby room.


This corner may look simple enough, but there was an old closet built into the wall that was a poor use of space and not very functional. We opted to take it out, but that is easier said than done. As many other century old houses, the original walls were made of lathe and plaster (sp???) but had since been covered by drywall. Needless to say, theses walls were thick and strong! During the demolition process, a letter that had been written in 1935 was found in a crack! That was an interesting find and it makes you wonder what else is lurking in theses walls! I am not sad to see this closet go and I look forward to the wardrobes arriving from Ikea that will  be installed in its place.


I am still standing in our new room as I take this pic. This is the opening that joins our room to the baby room. We opted to not do anything to block this access route... time will tell if we regret this decision! We do have some long/heavy curtains that separate the two rooms and provide a measure of privacy.


That new drywall in the corner of this room (Jett's new room) is to cover the place where there used to be a door that led out onto a second floor balcony/veranda area. I WISH we actually had a functioning second floor balcony! That would be awesome. However, that space has not been used since long before I entered the scene on the Schultz Family Farm. 


Two sunny windows in the corner of Jetty's new room. I love how bright and cheery this space has become. I'm impressed with how well we were able to cover the dark red paint that used to adorn these walls. Hat's off to General Paint.


There has been lots to explore at the back of our house as we've done much purging of old furniture etc. during this process.


And... the "AFTER" pics. (After, although not completely done.)


Our "new" room. I love how fresh this space now feels, although we do need to have some blackout blinds installed in those windows so that our yard lights don't shine so brightly in our windows at night!


I am really enjoying this stand-alone full length mirror I found at Leon's. We have also pulled out our moses basket basinet as we eagerly await the arrival of our sweet girl!


There's not much room to spare, but our bed fits in tis space just fine. I found a new duvet cover and bed accessories at Quits Etc. in Midtown Plaza. I walked in on the right day because I got 50% off of a price that had already been marked down! I am loving the accent pillows. I will be on a search for pictures/art to fill the bare spaces on those walls that you see. I also would like to find a fabulous bedside lamp to put on that floating shelf I put up to serve as a bedside table.


We are not doing much to change the baby room seeing as it was newly made less than 2 years ago! We will be adding several more feminine accents and touches to the room, though. I did get rid of a wooden shelf that was behind the door and I replaced it with a section of one of our closet organizers. I am liking this arrangement much better than the old wooden shelf. Having the baby's hanging closet there will be very accessible and functional.


This next picture is taken from the new hallway/landing area looking into Jett's new room. As you may have noticed, we've hung on to the hundred year old doors/frames. I actually really love the feel they give to our little space. 


This is Jett's new "big boy" bed. He loves it, but is not quite ready to actually sleep there. We won't push the issue.... yet. We got this bed from Ikea and it took Mitch and I at least 4 hours to put it together! In the end though, we are fairly impressed with how sturdy it feels. It has two large drawers that will hold Jett's clothes and the whole bed actually pulls out so you can lay a second mattress down. Those decals on the back wall are of Curious George, which is Jett's favourite show. The were a gift from a friend who's son has outgrown them (Thank you, Katrina) and Jett loves them.


Already Jett is loving this floor mat we got from Ikea and he also enjoys sitting in his little chairs. I think this will be a fun space for him.


We moved back into our house on Thursday (March 1st) this past week. It feels good to be living in our own space again, although it was incredibly helpful and convenient to move into my in-law's basement while we blitz renovated our house.

Here is our list of things that are still to be done in our upstairs living space, preferably BEFORE our sweet baby girl joins us:
       - Lay new carpet down on the landing (original and new) as well as down the stairwell.
         (We have the carpet on order from Braid Flooring. They will also be laying it for us.)
       - Put a final coat of paint on the dangerously high walls that line our stairwell.
       - Tack up a wall panelling over top of the old/peeling wallpaper that is still on the walls in the original
          landing.
       - Assemble/Install our new wardrobes from Ikea.
       - Install some floating shelves (already purchased from Home Depot) in the new landing/hallway area.
       - Find a light shade/fixture to cover the plain light bulb that hangs in our new bedroom.
       - Find and hang some great pictures in all three rooms.

We are very blessed to have amazing family who have helped us on this journey. From the cleaning and purging of the former rooms, the framing of the new walls, taping and mudding drywall, the painting of the walls and all the electrical work, not to mention meals that were provided along with childcare of our active munchkin, we are grateful for how our families came alongside us.

While I will definitely not be making a career out of renovating, this has been a fairly painless process and I am already enjoying the results. If anyone has any suggestions for pictures, art, or accessories let me know!

Friday, March 2, 2012

12 Days and Counting...

So, I'm not sure what happened to February. I think I blinked and it was past... we'll, that's not entirely true. February was actually a very busy month and I must say, I'm excited that it's now March. There are 12 days remaining before my due date and I'm nearly ready.

I was teaching grade 6 until Feb. 17th, the day before the week-long Feb. break. As I think I've written previously on here, I was only teaching half time, which was WONDERFUL, but still very busy in my last couple of weeks. Trying to finish various units, collect assignments and get everything marked and grades calculated filled most of my days and evenings. I was also coaching Div. 2 Girls Basketball most lunch hours and drove in on some of my non-teaching days for games. In case you're wondering, yes, it was rather hilarious to see me haul my bulk up and down the court demonstrating various basketball skills to my grade 5 and 6 girls!

I love teaching and the grade six class that I taught every other day was awesome, but it was still a relief  to clean out my desk and NOT drive to school on Monday morning. I could then focus on what was next on my "to do" list, our house!

I'll probably write a whole post about this sometime in the days to come, but I'll give the spoiler now. Mitch and I decided to do some renovations in preparation for our sweet baby girl coming sometime around March 14th. We live in a 100 year old house; the original farm house; built by Mitch's great grandfather. I actually really like this house, but there are some issues with the layout and a few other things. We began clearing and framing on Monday Feb. 20th, and we've been working hard since. I have enjoyed watching our "upstairs" transform, but I have yet to have a day to relax!

So, here I am, less than two weeks until I have a newborn in my life again (at least I sure HOPE to have this baby within 2 weeks!) and I have not done a very good job of documenting or reflecting upon the process. I'm not big on posting too many belly pictures, but I have a couple I'll share.

This pic is from at least a month ago. That floral print is doing nothing for me to make me look any smaller! 


 Here's the recent pic of my belly. My back is mostly shadowed, but let me assure you that my back is incredibly arched. I'm carrying this little girl much more "out front" than I did with Jett and my lower back reminds me of this every day. My belly is very round this time around. We won't be having a little daughter, I'm sure.


This pic is actually from my first pregnancy. I thought I'd throw it in for comparison. I think I was bigger all around with Jett. The angle of this picture doesn't give the best vantage, but check out my puffy face! I really retained much more fluid last time. I remember sitting in my desk at school, more than a month before I had Jett and I could poke my fat ankles and make an indent that would last long after I pulled my finger out! I haven't had any of that this time around, praise the Lord!


Okay... any idea what this following pic is???

 Sorry if this caught you off guard or offended anyone, but this is indeed the very BOTTOM of my belly button. The little fold of skin above my belly button is actually a scar from when I had it pierced 10 years ago. The bottom of that scar is normally inside the top of by belly button. So, for other math geeks out there, that is the radius of the circle of skin that is normally protected inside my button! Crazy, eh? Too much information? Maybe. I just get a kick out of this. Notice that I have confined this picture to only show the belly button. I do not desire to show you all the many stretch marks that cover the rest of my round belly. 


A week ago or so, my little Jett was walking around the house in an unusual way, obviously trying to draw attention to himself. I watched him curiously until it dawned on me what he was doing. "Are you walking like Mommy?" I asked him. He gave me that silly smirk that I love so much and answered, "Yeppa!" At less than 2 years old, my son is already a comedian and loves to be goofy. I tried to capture his "mommy-walk" on video, but like most things right now, Jett only performs on his own terms; when HE wants to. So, the following video doesn't quite capture the entirety of how funny my little man is, but it will give you the idea.

Enjoy!